Typically, any thatch layer 1"+ would be considered excessive. Even at that level, as a lawn care provider, I would recommend dethatching and aerating to reduce the thatch. Over 1", I would take a sod cutter to it, roll it up, discard, and seed from scratch. If it truly is a 3"+ thatch layer, it will take an awfully long time to remove all of it. Keep in mind, a healthy thatch layer is 2/10"-3/10".